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You mentioned going into public and getting respect whether you’re dressed as a woman or man, I was wondering about work and such. Where do you work? So like if you work as a crossdresser then obviously it’s okay at work, but I’m wondering how a different job/co-workers react if one day you come in as a man, and the next as a woman? So I work as a software developer in SF, which is helpful, since it’s probably the most accepting place in the country! It took a long time for me to start dressing at work. We had […]

Ask a Crossdresser: Work

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I remember reading an article a while ago about how coming out doesn’t just happen once, but that it’s a continuous process of self-revelation each and every time you meet new people. I guess it must have struck a chord with me, because I found my self thinking about it recently as some circumstances at work are changing, and I feel like I’m coming out as a crossdresser to people again.

Coming out as a crossdresser – over and over again.

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Heels. We all love them. From kitten heels to skyscrapers, they’re a great way to complete a look, and can make or break an outfit sometimes. But when you don’t have a pair, or you’ve bought a pair and can’t for the life of you walk in them, you (or at least I) inevitably end up searching online for “Oh hey, how the hell are you supposed to walk in those?!” As it turns out, it’s reaaaaaaallly not that difficult – read below to learn how to walk in heels with confidence! A little backstory first, I guess.

How to – Walk in Heels

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I had some time, while on a recruiting trip, to make good use of a somewhat-decent hotel room :) I ended up taking a *lot* of pics, and as it turns out, I ended up liking quite a lot of them, so it seemed like it made sense to break these up into two parts. The first set is mostly fairly tame, while the second set gets the tiniest bit more risque :) Anyway, here goes!

My Second Photoshoot – Part 1

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Well, it’s been a busy year I guess! in 2012, I basically came out to everyone as a crossdresser. That was a pretty big milestone for last year. This year – 2013 – I started going to work while dressed. Being able to dress more definitely gave me a lot more time to figure out my style a bit more, going from this to this I think it’s fair to say I’ve become a bit more comfortable in terms of not only style, but also just being able to be comfortable in my own skin while dressed.

Goodbye 2013, you’ve been somewhat spectacular!

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I stumbled across these just the other day. These were probably taken around… 2002? Goes to show that… it can definitely take a while to figure out wtf you’re doing. (including how to take a decent picture, jesus!) Let’s start off with my favourite though :D Yowzer. dem legs.

A long, long time ago… my first ever pics. I ...

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