Liz, I stumbled upon your blog and the ask page. I am a mostly straight man attracted to M2F girls, and I have a first date with a crossdresser tonight. I was looking around online for dating tips, do’s and don’ts, but couldn’t find much. She seems rather eager for sex, which is fine. I will proceed with caution, but I’m wondering if I should show up with flowers and wine just as I might on a date with a GG. My instinct says yes be the same gentleman I am usually, but I was just looking for confirmation. Definitely, […]

Ask a Crossdresser: Dating a crossdresser

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You said you were married. How did you bring it up with your wife? What was her reaction? Was it before/after you started dating/married? So my wife and I were friends online for a looooong time before we were ever romantically linked, and yeah, she knew at least 3 or 4 years beforehand. I guess a lot of things were made easier by the fact that she knew – I suppose she knew what she was getting into, lol – but I was definitely worried about it for a bit, and yeah, even now every so often I get worried […]

Ask a Crossdresser: Your wife

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It’s been a WHILE since I posted, well… anything. Sorry about that. But anyway, here’s some pics I took this weekend :) If there’s anything I’ve learned from this photoshoot, it’s… Photoshoots are hard I need MUCH better lighting solutions, because lamps with foil attached don’t really do it Posing is tougher than it looks I could REALLY do with a nikon prime lens with a wider angle than 35mm Anyway…

An actually-decent Photoshoot

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So, my job’s kind of cool inasmuch as they have lots of somewhat large parties where people dress up (You’ve probably noticed). Ever since the first one I dressed up at (which was scary, but a necessary step in my eventual coming out of the CD closet and having people see this as a NORMAL, NON-PERVERTED HUMAN ACTIVITY), it’s become somewhat expected that at each costume party type affair, I’ll be dressed up like a lady. And that’s fine. I’m happy to fill that role :D So, the theme of the Christmas party was “France”… Little bit of a broad […]

Christmas Party – En Francais!

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The first in the Making Liz series. I don’t know about you, but it took me quite a while to get to grips with even the idea of doing makeup. As a crossdresser, we face some challenges – different challenges, and I, by no means, am no expert on how to tackle them (As I’m SURE you’ll be able to tell from this photo series… But first… let’s begin…

Making Liz – Part One: Bizarre Preparation

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